"If I have any insight at all to contribute it is this: find out what you are really good at and stick to it."
– Stephen Jay Gould
You’re going to change and grow so much in the next couple of years, there’s no way you’re going to be able to stick to the plan you developed at 18 or 22. At the same time, not having any kind of plan keeps you jumping from idea to idea, job to job with no time to really develop the skills and knowledge you need to make an informed decision. Sit down and write out your future goals. Make a list of the kinds of jobs you’ve had in the past that you liked and the ones you disliked. Do the same for relationships, cities, friends, etc. If there’s a particular career or city you want to check out, create a plan of how you’re going to learn more about that career or city.
If you want more sex in your life, are you being sexually forward, letting women know in no uncertain terms that you think they're sexy, and talking about sex freely? Or are you withholding that and waiting them to lead in talking about sex and attraction? Click the link in our profile for a blog post that will help you be more direct (and sexual) with women!
"If you don't like losing, you've fucking lost!" as @garyvee says about business success. The same thing applies to meeting and dating women. If you hate rejection, then you'll cost yourself ENDLESS opportunities to meet women, and you won't be your most authentic, confident, charming self when you do meet them. As you get ok with rejection & even learn to have fun with it, you become more free, more real with women, and deadly attractive.
Your mentor will put a great deal of time into teaching you. In turn, they’ll need to know that they have made a good investment in devoting their time to you.
You need to find a mentor that you admire, but more than that, someone who has the personality traits needed to successfully mentor you. Someone who has not only the knowledge you need, but the patience required to teach you. Leadership skills are very important in a mentor. You’re going to put a lot of trust into this person and you need to know they will guide you in the right direction.
"Walking with a friend in the dark is better than walking alone in the light."
– Helen Keller
You need your friends and family’s support now. Not just for advice and guidance, but you need to be able to call a friend to grab a drink after work or meet for brunch on Sunday to talk about your crazy boss or the cute guy on the 5th floor you said hello to in the elevator. These connections will keep you grounded and realistic about where you are in your life.
@Regranned from @alphahomeflipping - Emotions can be the enemy, if you give into the emotion, you lose yourself. You must be at one with your emotions, because the body always follows the mind. - Bruce Lee .
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"Think excitement, talk excitement, act out excitement, and you are bound to become an excited person. Life will take on a new zest, deeper interest and greater meaning. You can think, talk and act yourself into dullness, or into monotony, or into unhappiness. By the SAME PROCESS you can build up inspiration, excitement and surging depth of joy."
- Norman Vincent Peale
I LOVE THIS. I see it happen in the lives of the millennials I work with all the time!
Be that guy. Get in touch with your attraction and turn-on for her, walk up, and let her feel that in your voice and your eyes as you hold deep eye contact and tell her what drew you to her. It's all about who you're being as a man - click the link in our bio for a blog post about how to give great, sexy compliments to women!
Women tend to operate on the subtle, but they are actually often still the ones to initiate flirting through things like eye contact. They want you to be attentive to that and then lead by walking over and opening your mouth! It's a dance of emotions. Have fun with it!
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When you’re young, learning to address and solve your own problems can feel like the day your parents told you it was time to take off the training wheels of your favorite tricycle.
It’s new, it’s awkward and it can feel like you may fall over any second. There are just so many decisions to choose from when you’re young. You’re away from your parents, out of college, maybe unmarried with no children; you can travel the world, move across the country or even dye your hair 15 different colors.
For some young people all these choices excite and challenge them, but for other young people it can create fear and overwhelm.
If you fall into the “fear and overwhelm” group, that’s OK. This is why young people struggle so much making choices. Not only are the possibilities endless, but you haven’t had a lot of experience making big life decisions. That is why I made confidence and having the ability to stick to things even when it gets hard big part of my 30 day challenge. Come join the challenge on my website! LINK IN MY BIO!
It’s so easy to see your best friend should dump her loser boyfriend. It’s so simple to see the perfect career path your kid should wander down. It’s easy to see that if your sister stopped drinking so much soda, she’d lose weight.
It’s simple and easy for you, but certainly not for the person who’s struggling. The person struggling is in love with her boyfriend or scared about what it would mean to pursue that career path or isn’t ready to give up daily comfort for long-term success.
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This week we're talking about how to solve your own problems.
I know…it’s not a very sexy topic but it’s vital for 20-somethings to learn how to solve their own problems. And before any parents out there jump in to agree or disagree with me… some of you are part of the problem.
In school we’re taught how to think critically. We learn how to look at a particular issue from various sides in order to determine the best possible outcome. So, why is it so hard to apply that same critical eye to our issues?
Billionaire entrepreneur Richard Branson credits focusing more on the people he was interacting with than himself with helping him overcome social anxiety. You can't worry about yourself as much if you're putting more attention on her...which is what you should be doing when getting to know someone anyway. It'll also make you seem more attractive and less selfish because you'll be more attentive & pick up on a lot more than many other men.
“WHEN YOU GO OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE AND IT WORKS, THERE’S NOTHING MORE SATISFYING.”
- Kristen Wiig
People achieve great things because they don’t give up, they keep going even after they’ve fallen down and push themselves past their point of comfort.
"WHEN YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND SOMETHING, IT BECOMES A BATTLE. FEAR MAKES PEOPLE DEFENSIVE, AGGRESSIVE AND JUDGMENTAL. BUT IF YOU CAN SEE THAT WHILE WE'RE ALL DIFFERENT, OUR BASIC NEEDS ARE THE SAME — WE ALL WANT LOVE, SAFETY AND UNDERSTANDING — THEN IT'S EASY TO BE KIND."
- Ellen Degeneres
It’s important for your to try and experience new things because this is the best way to determine what you want and don’t want and to start making choices to see what’s right for you. Through this process you’ll begin to understand yourself and what you want your life to look like.
"Confidence and empowerment are cousins in my opinion. Empowerment comes from within and typically it's stemmed and fostered by self-assurance. To feel empowered is to feel free and that's when people do their best work. You can't fake confidence or empowerment."
- Amy Jo Martin
Confidence is earned. It cannot be fashioned from a look in a magazine, or a scene from a move, or based on what you think other people are doing or what other people think you should be doing. Inner confidence is acquired when you make the brave choices every day to tune out the white noise, embrace your fears and be true to what you value.
“People tell you that you cannot, because they do not.”
- Tim Fargo
You can’t wait until you “feel brave,” you just have to make the choice to do it. If you wait around to feel brave…well you are going to be waiting forever.
Your 20s are the ideal time to start working on your bravery skills. You need to defy, challenge and dare. This is not the time to sit back, relax and think, “I’ve got all the time in the world to pursue this or that, I don’t need to be brave and possibly do something that could fail.”