When I was a child, I remember watching the Cosby Show and realizing this was not my reality. I didn’t understand the emotions at the time, but I knew what they had, was what I wanted. Many have prayed for a Huxtable experience, but have gone unanswered.
Parents are our first teachers. When there’s an absence, it leaves the students unattended. Resulting in a child acting like a child. There are many people incarcerated today as a result of absent teaches. “When Are Mommy and Daddy Coming Home” addresses these scenarios. I’m super excited about this body of work!! I know it’s going to inspire, provoke the necessary conversations and bring awareness to the unique love required to parent the adopted. What I’m mostly excited about is the healing that will take place in the adults who still suffer from the emotional lacerations. “When Are Mommy and Daddy Coming Home”
If you correct a foolish man on his mistakes he will take it as a shot at his ego. He will not attempt to learn anything from his mistake and he will despise you. -
If you correct a wise man on his mistakes he will listen to every word you have to say. He will appreciate you for correcting him and will do his best to learn from his mistakes.
The question is are you the foolish one or the wise one? Are you willing to take criticism and use it to strengthen you.
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Let me tell you all something ya girl is an over thinker. When I have big goals or dreams that I want to accomplish I literally think of every possible scenario that can happen before I actually do a thing. Of course you know this is not good and will stunt your growth.
So as I have been developing and pushing pass this control freak mentality I wanted to share a few quick tips with you all if you are like me and get stuck.
1. SURRENDER - release control God knows you best and will guide you in the direction you shall go.
2. WALKING IN PURPOSE - is a marathon not a sprint you are forever evolving. So give yourself some grace.
3. WRITE IT DOWN - your goals make a list and break them down into tasks and ask God for ways you can be most productive with your time.
4. JUST DO IT - stop overthinking. Instead of thinking about what could go wrong start thinking of what could go right!
5. REBUTE - Take a break when you need to for mental clarity. Know God will provide you peace and clarity when you seek it. Everything is working on your behalf you just have to put in the work, relax, and believe!
Have an awesome day! 😘❤️
You currently might not be where you want to be, but you’re also not where you used to be. Life is always moving forward. Do you remember that difficult situation you got out of, even though you thought you wouldn’t? Do you remember, those problems that you thought you wouldn’t overcome, but you did anyway. They probably seem so small now, but they weren’t at the time, were they? You overcame then and you will again ... Don’t let your challenges ever get the best of you.
I realize it’s very easy to look at life and focus on what’s missing or what’s not giving you feelings of pleasure ... and because of these things, you might be becoming impatient and losing faith. Stop this thinking. Stay positive, keep believing in yourself and stay faithful that amazing things are ahead. Stop being too hard on yourself and breathe a little. Look at where you’ve succeeded in life and place your focus on everything that you’re blessed with. Your life could be better, but it could also be worse. You’ve got a lot to be thankful for and a lot to enjoy. You also need to remember how great you are. Be proud of yourself at where you are and where you’ve grown from. Sure there is room for more growth, but guess what ... that’s how it is for us all. You’re definitely not alone there. Keep your head up and your focus on getting better each day ... and keep inspiring others to do the same. #selfreflection#personalgrowth#selfdevelopment#selfcare#believeinyourself#faith#positivity#mindset#motivation#inspiration#fitnesswithjavier#personaltrainer#actor#motivationalspeaker#publicspeaker#latino#mexico#monterrey#regio#chicago#chitown#keepmovingforward#keepbelieving#holdontoyourfaith
It flashes over our eyes. Time goes by so fast we live it day by day not realizing that the last 10 years look no different than now. If you want your next 10 years of your life to have a dramatic change you must SELF EDUCATE! Grow and LEARN!
Deception— 1. We deceive ourselves by trying to cover up our pain with a tough guy exterior and 2. We allow people to deceive us by making us think that everything is perfect in their lives when it’s not that way for anyone.
IN think and grow rich Napoleon Hill findings over 25 years states that successful people are decisive while average people are not... eventough I read and heard about many times
I wasn’t sure that I fully understood the reason behind- now I know why and how it happens-
Very simple- the driven people are VERY CLEAR ON WHAT MATTERS TO THEM.. regardless of the field - that gift of clarity whether it’s in the form of want or values is the distinctive secret of the world leaders..
When you are clear about what matters to you - you clearly defining the boundaries (internal ) , therefore allowing you to be quicker in making décisions...
So are you clear about what matters to you?
If you want further clarity feel to read my blog or check my YouTube video hat explains it well..
Until next time -
Are you ready to dare to shine?
DON'T BE ASHAMED! NEVER FEEL ALONE!
We all want someone to feel what we feel and pray for that help and support to heal what we need to heal. Unfortunately most are praying for the same strenghth we desire. Newsflash! You are stronger than you think! You have made it this far and you are doing great with the battle marks, scars and any wounds! Be proud of you and your journey. Be thankful for you! Turn your wounds into wisdom and scars to a success story! We all have a page and chapter in our life we don't necessarily like to talk about but DON'T BE ASHAMED to have lived that time in your life! Strength is found on those pages! Strength is found in your heart! Keep fighting the good fight! Keep going! Keep growing and keep knowing you are here for a reason! P.S Love you some you! ❤ #livingonpurpose#teacher#mentor#motivationalspeaker#teens#depression#suicide#sobriety#quotes#wisdom#truth#raidernation#win